HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEN!
So, as Ben turns 8, he is spending his birthday weekend in Clearwater, participating with his Challenger Baseball team at the Jamboree! The Challenger Little League is a special baseball division set up for children who have disabilities of all kinds, allowing them to learn the values of teamwork and sportsmanship. Everyone gets to play! Everyone gets a turn at bat!
I cannot say enough good things about the Challenger League. They have been welcoming and supportive all the way! They even pay for the uniforms so that all the kids can afford to play! This has been a great experience for Ben and it is hard to believe he is growing up so fast!
If you, or someone you know, has a special needs child that would like to participate in the Challenger Baseball League, you can find info on their website: CHALLENGER BASEBALL * CLICK HERE
Short. Sweet. To the point. Here is the thought for today:
“I am different, not less ”
― Temple Grandin
So on the way home from school today, Ben had an epiphany of sorts. He turned to me and asked “Mom, why does school take so long?” In response I asked him “Don’t you like school?” He replied “Yes but it just takes so long mom.” Yeah, he’s right. Sometimes things take too long. Actually, now that I think about it, most of the time things take longer than planned, but that’s okay. It’s all just part of the journey.
The holidays are a mere four months away, are you planning ahead yet? I am in the process of getting all my online ducks in a row (swagbucks, e-rewards, and other incentives that I plan on using to purchase Christmas gifts). I thought now would be a good time to share a personal, POSITIVE experience with regifting.
My best friend and I met through our sons. Both are on the Autism “spectrum” and they attended the same school a while back and they became fast friends. Soon playdates followed and she and I became close friends as well. She is an avid purse collector. She loves purses! That is her “thing”. Usually I notice her new finds when she uses them but there was one purse in particular that I really liked when I saw her using it. Boy what a purse it was! A bright pink, metallic, Ed Hardy purse! It was not a “purse”…. it was a PURSE! LOL!
Anyhow, time went on and Christmas rolled around. We arranged to go to lunch and she said she had a gift for me. It was the purse! She decided that she did not like it as much as she had thought she would and so she gave it to me! The fact that she would give me this purse instead of returning it to get her money back just impresses me! I love this purse and all it’s ”bling-y-ness”!
If someone has told you in the past that they really admire something that you have and you are no longer using it, consider “regifting” it. I think that as long as the item is in good condition and the person would really appreciate and use the item, it is okay to purposefully regift. Obviously use your best judgement in this situation…. only you know how the people you are regifting to will react.
For those of you who don’t know, my son Ben is Autistic. He is a “special needs” child. He has been in therapy and special schools since he was three. It is my job to make sure that he gets all the services he is entitled to and that the specialists who are supposed to be helping him do what they are supposed to be doing for him.
Since the beginning of this journey, I have always been hands on at his school. I never just assummed the staff was doing their job and that I did not need to follow thru or support them. It amazed me then and still amazes me now that so many parents just don’t get involved at their childrens schools. Especially since these are the parents of special needs children. To me this just ups the importance.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I know that there are many families where both parents work and also many families with single parents doing their best for their children. The truth is that when the teachers send home a notice about a parent teacher meeting and then the parents don’t show up, they just assume you are not that interested in your child’s education. I have heard this first-hand from many teachers.
I am not talking about going full out PTA parent or anything. I am simply talking about showing up for parent teacher conferences and volunteering a few hours during the school year. Kids LOVE to see their parents on their school campus! They just get such a thrill to know you are there too (even if you are not in the same room). Email the teachers when you have a comment, question or concern. Ask the teacher if there are any items you can contribute to the classroom (kleenex, snacks, juice, whatever they need). Let them know you are an active and involved parent!
As much as it is the responsibility of the teachers to help your child learn, it is your responsibility to make sure that they are able to help your child in the best way possible! Your input is INVALUBLE